Hey guys!
So, i had to get a new account which means this one is shutting down! But i am up and running on the other one, which i will have a video up on youtube hopefully tomorrow night (i get to play with imovie and the mac!!!) and it will have all of the links to my new blogs and all that jazz! if you have any favourite blog posts of mine just e-mail me to my new e-mail: rundlemg52@gmail.com and i will make sure to get that one up. i will try to get all of them up, but that can't be promised. so hurry!
xoxo
RundleMeg
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Friday, December 16, 2011
Losing Friends
Hey guys!
Sorry i haven't posted in forever! But, i have been so busy! And nothing important enough has happened that i needed to write about it, however i have learned a really important lesson lately and i felt the need to share it with you.
So i have 2 different senarios for you. I will tell you the senario and then how to deal with it :)
Senario 1:
Your friend is moving somewhere really far away. So far that it is very unlikely you will ever see them again.
How to deal:
Step one, be sad and cry over it if you are close enough to them, if not you may skip this step completely. You need time to be sad and to cry over the fact that your friend is leaving and you may never see them again. After that, know that you will live! Know that you will be okay and not die just becasue your friend moved. Now is the time to get back out there and meet new people, find a new friend and move on. You always have things like facebook or twitter or youtube or e-mail that you can use to stay in touch with your friend. Worst case senario, you can always write them a letter. Become pen pals. Maybe in the future you guys can get together again. Try convincing your parents to let you go visit your friend for a week or so, or they can come visit you.
Senario 2,
Your friend turns into a really mean person. They become friends with the wrong crowd or they just start expecting things from you that you can't do. They start treating you like you're nothing, they only talk to you when it suits them. Whatever the case may be, you either are getting ditched or you need to ditch. But, you have been friends with this person forever! You can't imagine life without them in your life or you see them every day of your life and you know it will hurt not being able to talk to them.
How to deal,
For starters, this person is toxic to you and you need to let go. Find your self a couple of new friends and MOVE ON. Avoid this person at all costs because they are only going to hurt you in the long run. After a while, once you think you can live with out this person, and you aren't always getting upset at the sight of them you are ready fort he next step. You can talk to them now. Be polite but not overly nice. You don't always have to start the conversation in fact i encourage you not to. This person, they hurt you and they ruined you. Now is your time to shine. If they ever cared about you, then they will come up to you and say "hey" they will start the conversation with you. They will apologize. You should never have to apologize to this person because it isn't your fault, no matter how much they seem to think it is. DO NOT i repete, DO NOT get mad at them. When i say that i mean don't go and yell at them or talk behind their back. Don't give them anything that they can use against you and tell people to make people turn against you. You need to be the bigger person.
I hope this helped you through a rough time of losing a friend!
Any questions? E-mail me!
mrundle7@telus.net
PS. I might be getting twitter soon. I just need to convince my parents, which i hope won't take long :) I'll Let you guys know once i do!
Visit my YouTube!
RundleMeg
xoxo
-Meagan
Sorry i haven't posted in forever! But, i have been so busy! And nothing important enough has happened that i needed to write about it, however i have learned a really important lesson lately and i felt the need to share it with you.
So i have 2 different senarios for you. I will tell you the senario and then how to deal with it :)
Senario 1:
Your friend is moving somewhere really far away. So far that it is very unlikely you will ever see them again.
How to deal:
Step one, be sad and cry over it if you are close enough to them, if not you may skip this step completely. You need time to be sad and to cry over the fact that your friend is leaving and you may never see them again. After that, know that you will live! Know that you will be okay and not die just becasue your friend moved. Now is the time to get back out there and meet new people, find a new friend and move on. You always have things like facebook or twitter or youtube or e-mail that you can use to stay in touch with your friend. Worst case senario, you can always write them a letter. Become pen pals. Maybe in the future you guys can get together again. Try convincing your parents to let you go visit your friend for a week or so, or they can come visit you.
Senario 2,
Your friend turns into a really mean person. They become friends with the wrong crowd or they just start expecting things from you that you can't do. They start treating you like you're nothing, they only talk to you when it suits them. Whatever the case may be, you either are getting ditched or you need to ditch. But, you have been friends with this person forever! You can't imagine life without them in your life or you see them every day of your life and you know it will hurt not being able to talk to them.
How to deal,
For starters, this person is toxic to you and you need to let go. Find your self a couple of new friends and MOVE ON. Avoid this person at all costs because they are only going to hurt you in the long run. After a while, once you think you can live with out this person, and you aren't always getting upset at the sight of them you are ready fort he next step. You can talk to them now. Be polite but not overly nice. You don't always have to start the conversation in fact i encourage you not to. This person, they hurt you and they ruined you. Now is your time to shine. If they ever cared about you, then they will come up to you and say "hey" they will start the conversation with you. They will apologize. You should never have to apologize to this person because it isn't your fault, no matter how much they seem to think it is. DO NOT i repete, DO NOT get mad at them. When i say that i mean don't go and yell at them or talk behind their back. Don't give them anything that they can use against you and tell people to make people turn against you. You need to be the bigger person.
I hope this helped you through a rough time of losing a friend!
Any questions? E-mail me!
mrundle7@telus.net
PS. I might be getting twitter soon. I just need to convince my parents, which i hope won't take long :) I'll Let you guys know once i do!
Visit my YouTube!
RundleMeg
xoxo
-Meagan
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